Procedure, Cost & Effects of Marriage Counselling

A kind of psychotherapy for the couples whose relationship is on the verge of end or whose relationship is moving towards an end, is what is marriage therapy. The treatment plan for the therapy depends upon the situation of the relationships. Even the happiest couple could have problems in their relationships. Though the main aim for the counselling is to make the couple recognise the problems between them and to find a way to deal with the situations, sometimes the process could test even the strongest bonding.

The main issues faced by the couples going for therapy are huge conflicts and growing distance in their relationship. Even day to day small or minute problems could be the reason bringing pressure in your relationship. According to experts, couples on an average wait for 6 years to get help, which could be sometimes disastrous for their relationship as the sooner you sort out the issues the smaller the problem would be.

How does the counselling work?

• The marriage counselling is also commonly called the couple counselling. It is done to recognise and resolve the issues between the couples, i.e. married or unmarried.
• Marriage counselling is generally provided by licensed therapists also known as marriage and family therapists. 
•  The procedure for handling different situations could be different for different counsellors. 
• The therapists would inquire about your history, issues etc. would expect you to be completely honest, open about the queries. 
• Based on your situation, the therapist may want to talk to you and your partner separately. After the initial sessions the therapist would provide you with feedback and explain to you the plan for treatment. 
•  You may have to attend a few sessions depending on your case and situation. The main intention behind the various sessions and treatment plan is to help you open up regarding your issues, negotiate or discuss them with your partner.

Who needs a couple’s counselling?

• Couples facing problems in their relationship, even for pre-marital counselling who wish to sort them out and are looking for a solution to these issues, go for a counselling session.
• The main intention behind going for a relationship counselling is to help save the relationship or marriage which is on the brink of a breakdown. 
• The neutral perspective of a third person i.e. the counsellor is found to be very helpful.

Side effects of the Couple Therapy

• Marriage counselling could give positive or negative results as well. 
• It is possible that the couple could argue or sometimes yell during their sessions, at which time the therapist could act as a mediator. 
• Sometimes while discussing their problems, situations could go out of hand and some hurtful thoughts could come to light which could aggravate the problems further.
• Thus, the couples going for a therapy should get ready for the session to go either way.

Cost for Counselling Session

In India, the cost may vary from counsellor to counsellor. On an average the treatment cost per session could range from INR 2000 to INR 7000.

Is counselling effective ?

• Results may vary from case to case and person to person. 
• While in some cases the problems could be sorted out after discussing the issues between the parties, in some other cases the problems get out of hand after the sessions have been completed. 

Alternatives to the counselling- 

• People often are not comfortable in discussing their personal issues with a third person, it would be way more helpful if they try to discuss their issues with their family or friends and seek their advice to sort out their issues. 

In case you are having problems in your marriage and are in need of legal guidance regarding your approach towards the marital problems you are facing or if you are seeking legal assistance regarding the various procedures regarding the same, you can contact us at Lead India.