Can wife disturbs her husband over call and messages while the divorce case is still pending in family court?

I have filed dv and 498 case against my husband and in laws. My husband has done second marriage and has two kids now. The court has passed maintenance as I am unemployed and have a daughter too. My husband has challenged the maintenance. Now what he wants is to settle the case. He wants me to return to him. What should I do We are talking about this on calls and messages will this be a disadvantage for me or is he trying to collect some evidence to turn the case should I stop talking to him