Next step after judge passes exparte order against spouse

I filed a divorce case while my husband conjugal rights case in different cities. Now case has been transferred in my city. His advocate didn't appear in court at said date and judge announced exparte case. My lawer had also filed maintenance claim case along with divorce. Now he is saying firstly get divorce later he will separately file alimony case and I will not get any maintenance ( case was filed last year in January and I have not got anything yet as case went for mediation). We are living seperately since 2016 and my husband has not psid anything yet we have a son too and I am taking care of him. Please guide.